Friday, 10 May 2013

Grief Management For Financial Advisers

Research on client and staff connectedness to a service provider such as a financial planner / insurance adviser shows that the key differentiators are not technical expertise, education and training. Rather these components of a service offer, client value proposition or collaborative workplace are starting points and must haves : if you like they are hygiene factors and minimum expectations.

The true differentiators are the ability to connect and bond with clients, to lead staff into a zone where on a daily basis they feel valued, appreciated and that they are are involved in purposeful meaningful work and as such each day they make progress even if in small increments towards work related and personal goals.

It is these types of workplaces that are characterised by greater collaboration and teamwork, an emotional investment in the workplace, and an understanding of what should be delivered to clients and the delivery of services to clientele that is often described by clients as excellent service because "they know me".

So how then does such a workplace respond to the experience of grief by a staff member, a client?

As risk advisers / financial planners that are intimately involved in a clients financial affairs, advisers are often the very first people called upon. How they react and manage these moments of truth are the critical test of how well advisers have gotten to know their clients. It is the true test of bonding.

Mary Ann Hazen is a professor of management in the College of Business and wrote in Organisational Dynamics Volume 38, Issue 4, October–December 2009, Pages 290–296 about theories about the grief process, and identified what to expect from bereaved clients and staff : fatigue, exhaustion, and difficulty concentrating; expressions of anger and guilt; and withdrawal from relationships.

What she identifies is that social support is necessary for healing, and meaningful work can often help the grieving person. She points out that teams that can respond fittingly to clients and staff with consideration for their needs : actually assist the healing process.

This is such an important part of the process : the service delivery for a client during the claims process and the support for each other in a team environment are crucial as such workplaces as financial services for a client and any workplace for a staff member are often an important part of many people's social network.

Accordingly as Mary Ann Hazen points out they are a major source of support.

For a client the support through the process required in financial services needs to be delivered not only with a guide on what the process actually entails but an awareness and acknowledgement in clear and unambiguous terms of what a client is going through. Guides to what your service entails need to identify the resources you have available for grief counselling and support irrespective of whether your client avails themselves of such services through you or not.

For staff experiencing grief Hazen identifies that work itself can be healing with the work a way to find meaning in a loss and maintain a connection with the person who has died.

What is key here is : the acceptance that people are in a grief state, the time to reflect and the tools on how to reflect on what each person needs as an individual as part of their own and often very private process, positive action by leaders to acknowledge and show the affected individuals that they are valued and feelings are validated and an education process that has at its disposal resources to guide people through the right process for them as an individual.

Studies of journal writing, verbal acknowledgement of feelings and sharing of feelings as a group shows the positive physiological responses to such techniques that over time result in a better physical manifestation and recovery from grief. But ultimately what counters the emotional loss is the core human response of acting with genuine care that can only be delivered by positive relationships based on trust, compassion and a bond borne from really knowing someone.

It's the connection that matters.





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